8 Signs That Your Relationship Is Ending.
Kavya gagangras
(Counselor)
Love is the most beautiful and sacred relationship in the world. This gives us the feeling that we are not alone, there is someone who always be with us. Having someone to share your happiness with, even if that person is not always with you, gives you a sense of not being alone. But sometimes something happens, some such incidents happen, some reasons arise due to which there is a gap in the relationship, this relationship starts to break, ends. But it is never said by both the person immediately that the bond between the two is over, nor is the bond broken in a day. It started long ago. There are indications of this from different things. These signs are visible. It shows that the relationship is over. Let’s see what those signs are.
1. Communication become low: Communication is very important in a relationship. If we don’t say what we think, how will the other person understand it? It doesn’t happen. During the initial phase of relationship, when there is love, partner tell you everything like every detail but then it becomes decrease. He or she doesn’t seem very important to say that. Simple conversations get decreases. Whether it is a direct conversation or a message, a phone call. There is peorid when couple talk without time restriction but gradually it decrease.
2. Meeting avoided by each other: Many couples in relationships are constantly in contact with each other. Because that association is a breeze. But that same association becomes undesirable now. They search for reasons to avoid meeting. Instead, the person prefers to be alone or spend time with other people they know.
3. Quarrels start for the smallest reasons: If the relationship is understanding and forgiving if there is a mistake, then the relationship will last well. But when a relationship hits a snag, even the smallest things become big, misunderstandings and fights ensue. And the waning of the alliance only adds to the strife.
4. Not only do people drift apart in mind but also physically: In love relationships there is also physical affection. Whether it is a hug or a loving kiss on the head, there is intimacy, love. As the relationship ends, these things also diminish and even if they exist, they become artificial. Love is not felt in that hug. It becomes a formality. Along with this, the physical relations that many people have are also reduced.
5. Relationship Doubts: When two people enter into a relationship, they believe in each other and the relationship, that they will do well, that they will overcome the obstacles that come in their way. But now there are doubts about all this. Trust in this relationship is lost. How long can we sustain this relationship? I don’t even know if I can really sustain it. A similar doubt arises in the mind.
6. Disagreements increase: Initially if any decision is to be taken, each other is considered. Opinion were taken into consideration. This is no longer the case. On the contrary, differences of opinion increase. The decision taken by the other person seems wrong and we do not involve him/her in whatever decision we are making.
7. Bad things in the other person become more visible: There is a time in the beginning of a love relationship when you think your partner is perfect. We are so engrossed in love that he can’t make a mistake, or even if he does, it is overlooked. But extremes, whether good or bad, are annoying. The same wrongs that were initially overlooked are now felt even more strongly. They were raised. Then those bad words, behavior, an addiction all appear more and the good things fall behind. These things happen because there is not a proper balance from the beginning.
8. Trust goes away: Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. That’s why we tell our close people the things that even the family members don’t know. But because that trust is gone, the things that we need to say to that person are not said. Whether it is your success or an important incident in life that you need to tell them, they understand or hear from someone else. When this estrangement occurs despite being together, it hurts more than the actual distance.
These are some of the signs that show that the relationship between the two of you is coming to an end. But remember that nothing is destroyed from the root. If you give yourself and the other person another chance, if you give the relationship another chance, you can definitely improve the relationship. You just need that much patience and readiness.